• protist@mander.xyz
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    12 days ago

    No, the vast majority of people who change their last name to their partners’ drop their middle name and replace it with their maiden last name. That’s what my wife did, as well as 95% of the people I know who have done this. This is totally average and not actually the thing you’re trying to make it out to be.

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      12 days ago

      Not trying to be weird, but to understand - roughly what age range and location are you talking about?

      I’m a divorced 52yo woman living in the Chicago suburbs and this is news to me.

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        12 days ago

        I’ve never heard of it before either. It doesn’t seem weird to me. Just, the assertion that it’s overwhelmingly common does not sound right.

      • protist@mander.xyz
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        11 days ago

        My frame of reference is 30-45 year olds in Texas, but also everyone’s parents who are 70+ now. What do people do in Chicago?