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minus-square𝕽𝖚𝖆𝖎𝖉𝖍𝖗𝖎𝖌𝖍@midwest.sociallinkfedilinkarrow-up0·3 days ago Shibari You Can Use has some excellent guides to safe restraint, if you want to learn more. Ha, thanks. But no. I’m neither a sadist, nor a masochist; hurting or being hurt is the biggest turn-off for me. To each their own.
minus-squarescutiger@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up0·3 days agoTying and/or being tied up in itself has nothing to do with pain.
minus-squareVoroxpete@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up0·edit-23 days agoYep. And this, right here, is a perfect example of “things that should go without saying still need to be said.” People should know that bondage and sado-masochism are not the same thing, and yet so many don’t.
Ha, thanks. But no. I’m neither a sadist, nor a masochist; hurting or being hurt is the biggest turn-off for me.
To each their own.
Tying and/or being tied up in itself has nothing to do with pain.
Yep. And this, right here, is a perfect example of “things that should go without saying still need to be said.”
People should know that bondage and sado-masochism are not the same thing, and yet so many don’t.