Hi!
I often read suggestions to use something like Tailscale to create a tunnel between a home server and a VPS because it is allegedly safer than opening a port for WireGuard (WG) or Nginx on my router and connecting to my home network that way.
However, if my VPS is compromised, wouldn’t the attacker still be able to access my local network? How does using an extra layer (the VPS) make it safer?
I self host because i do not trust companies. I will not even consider giving tailscale the keys to my kingdom.
The company Tailscale is a giant target and has a much higher risk in getting compromised than my VPN or even accessible services.
Understand the technology that you use and assess your use case and threat model.