M. 34
The fact I’ll die alone without ever feeling the love, the heat and comfort of a woman plus not having kids saddens me. So I want to know… How does it feel? Being in love and being together, the sex part, just living together, the drawbacks, just tolerate each other and all that…
EDIT: This is similar to a post I did over a week ago, but that just derailed into fights… Please, DON’T GIVE ME ADVICE. I’m fucked, nothing will change, I’m done in this life, I’m invisible, no woman will approach me. Just answer the question or ignore this post.
What is your goal with these posts man? You don’t want help, in fact you seem to react very aggressively at the mere idea, so why the fuck are you posting this? To torture yourself? To clap yourself on the back because, while you might be a fucking mess, at least you’re self-aware?
To answer your question, it’s nice being in a loving relationship, in no small part because it necessitates loving yourself and accepting you are worthy of love. A healthy relationship cannot exist without self-love.
I really hope you eventually seek out therapy, you obviously have a lot of hate for yourself and you deserve better. Everyone does.
Now to wait for OP to berate me for daring to offer advice and empathy! Sorry, not sorry! 😊 If you don’t want help, can you please at least stop spamming these super negative, useless posts? If you’re so insistent to stay in this mindset in which you are clearly unhappy, at least have the decency to buy a journal or something instead of posting when you are openly hostile to anyone who tries to be nice to you. Sorry if my tone is a bit rude throughout the message, but fuck I can’t help but feel you’d just automatically reject anyone sending any kindness your way.
No. And they’re not useless for me. Internet empathy is worth shit