• 1st panel : spongebob in a stand caption reads “Single trans woman”
  • 2nd panel : a huge crowd gathered around spongebob
  • 3rd panel : spongebob adds a little paper on his table saying “I don’t use my penis”
  • 4th panel : the whole crowd left.
  • Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.deEnglish
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    4 days ago

    i mean, don’t use it how? Specifically putting it inside another person or like… touching it at all?

    because personally as a penis wielder i don’t really have a desire to get bummed, but i’d quite like every other way of seeing a dick used.

  • random@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
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    6 days ago

    I’m a gigahon and way too ugly for any partner, appearently no man wants to date an ugly girl with a dick, that looks like a man

  • Stonewyvvern@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    6 days ago

    Long time ago Ally McBeal aired an episode where everyone had a problem with a dude dating a trans person (not sure if the nomenclature).

    They all had a problem with her having a dick. The dude dating her didn’t have a problem with it. But somehow everyone made it into a problem where there wasn’t one before.

    I just don’t understand how or why it was anyone else’s business to begin with. Culture social whatever nonsense reason they used to get involved was weak and shallow.

    Kinda showed how people will rationalize sticking their nose in where is doesn’t belong.

  • millie@beehaw.orgEnglish
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    6 days ago

    Honestly I’ve been too agoraphobic since COVID to even really put in the effort. I have Bumble sitting on my phone with no profile filled out and that’s as far as it’s gotten.

    But like, even the first panel sounds like kind of a boost. 😅

    • Chloë (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
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      7 days ago

      More than you would think, my previous partner evidently was. she was pretty great but never understood my bottom dysphoria. and always assumed I had “male” desires.

    • Comment105@lemm.eeEnglish
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      7 days ago

      You’d get a pretty similar bottom right as a straight cis guy or girl if you wrote “I don’t use my penis/vagina”, maybe a few more than zero, but not much.

      • JasonDJ@lemmy.zipEnglish
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        7 days ago

        Please hyphenate the words “bottom” and “right”…it took me too many tries to figure out how to parse that in this context.

        • Comment105@lemm.eeEnglish
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          7 days ago

          Well, I guess you’d also get a pretty similar bottom as a straight cis guy or girl if they wrote “I don’t use my penis/vagina”, so it’s probably not wrong even if you read it wrong.

    • Steve Dice@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
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      7 days ago

      Not trans but I think the issue is more that there’s a lot of chasers. My opinion comes entirely from the many I saw on Grindr so take that with a metric ton of salt.

    • blindbunny@lemmy.mlEnglish
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      6 days ago

      I dig dating trans men. I get to talk about motorcycles and guns and they usually want to help work on cars or motorcycles with me. Hang out in the woods and shoot rocks and in general do gross dangerous stuff together. For context I’m a cis bi sub

    • Zeke@fedia.io
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      7 days ago

      This is why I’ve personally dropped it. I can’t do HRT, bottom surgery is out, political trouble isn’t worth it, and I’ve already been turned down just for using the pronouns he/him. To add, I am in fact a bottom and straight. That little bit of self love doesn’t really feel worth it in my case.

      • JokeDeity@lemm.eeEnglish
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        6 days ago

        Please don’t take offense to this I’m just trying to follow: straight in this context means you’re attracted to?

      • Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
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        6 days ago

        Valid, I stopped T a week ago after 15 years and I’m playing around with the idea of detransition. At this point I feel I would be happier.

        Edit: This is in no way an implication that anyone else should stop HRT or pursue detransition.