… and why is this community against them?

  • Alice@hilariouschaos.com
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    Ppl take lemmy too seriously. You remember all that negativity from reddit?

    Yea, that’s mostly here on lemmy now. Reddit has become much more pleasant since they’ve moved here.

    Reddit is not without its issues. Only saying the difference is noticeable for sure.

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    I’ve often wondered, and occasionally asked people:

    Is this question, as I’m asking now with this sentance, a stupid question?

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      I opened this thread hoping for exactly this, and was not disappointed.

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        In my just over a year here and using him as my avatar, I think this is the first time I’ve actually said the line lol.

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          I thought i remember a thread from when you first created that account where we were all making you say the line.

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            Oh, yeah. I did, lol. Forgot about that.

            But that was deliberately in-character. I think this is the first time I just threw it out

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    I’ll take this question in the spirit of the community you posted to. “No stupid questions” refers to the saying “there is no such thing as a stupid question,” which is an aphorism meant to destigmatize expressing ignorance. This is supposed to be a place to ask the questions you might be afraid to ask because you assume everybody else already knows.

    The other posters are responding a bit comedically at the notion that this community is fundamentally opposed to asking “stupid questions” when it’s traditionally been a space for “I’ve been afraid to ask, but are you supposed to use shampoo or conditioner first?” type questions.

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      which is an aphorism meant to destigmatize expressing ignorance

      teacher of mine expressed it in the form of the “there are two types of questions - smart ones and those you shouldn’t be ashamed of”.

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    Once someone asked if Stephen and Stephen were pronounced the same. Presumably they meant “Steven” for one of those, but the question as written was dumb.

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    I have one for those that worked at Disney World. “What time is the 3 o’clock parade?”

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    Obvious bait

    but to answer your stupid question: Things that could be easily answered by a google search are pretty stupid to post here. The implied intention of this community, and the subreddit it was inspired by, is to provide a space for people to ask questions that don’t have an immediately identifiable and/or definite answer and require certain social understanding to navigate.

    “How many gallons of water to fill a pool?”, for example, is a question that does not belong here because you could easily find that info using a search engine (or even better, your pool’s owner’s manual).

    “How do you know when you’ve been swindled?” is something that does belong however, because it’s asking for personal experience to help navigate a situation that cannot be provided by a search engine.

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      See, I don’t need the answer to how many gallons of water to fill a pool so I won’t bother looking it up. But if someone replied I’d read it out of curiosity and be better for it. Discussions aren’t just 1 on 1 dialogos, they’re broad and general to a broad and general audience.

  • I'm back on my BS 🤪@lemmy.autism.place
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    In general, a stupid question is a question is one that allows a group to shame whomever asked it, often for wasting most people’s time and mental energy either by distracting the group or for asking something that was just explicitly answered. For example, if someone asked, “What does this community have to do with stupid questions?” as a response to my comment. That’s an example of asking something that was answered. Another stupid question in response to this comment could be, “Whhy do men have nipples?” It would be distracting because it is irrelevant to the topic at hand.

    Thus, I think the way it is used in this community, “no stupid questions” means that no question will be considered stupid. In other words, users are to feel free to ask anything without fear of being ridiculed for asking it as long as it was in good faith. Moderators will be especially vigilant for anyone shaming an OP for asking a question. Users that subscribe to this community will be extra accepting of all questions.

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    The only stupid questions are the ones you don’t ask. The full name of this community should be understood to be “[There are] no stupid questions”

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    The name of the community comes from the idiom, “There’s no such thing as a stupid question.” The idea is that as long as the person asking the question genuinely wants to learn, then there is no question they can ask that would make them stupid because they’re trying to educate themselves - one of the least stupid things you can do.

    Some people feel shame at not knowing something, so they’ll often talk down to themselves and call it a stupid question. This is particularly true if the asker feels it’s something that they should already know or everyone around them seems to already know.

    This community offers a place where you can ask a question, no matter how small or basic, without fear of being made fun of. In a sense, you might say that the community welcomes stupid questions while at the same time reassuring the questioner that the question is not actually stupid.

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      You’ve definitely not been in my latest work-related course. Dayum, people are able to ask some really stupid questions. (Subjective opinion)

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      Along the same lines, ignorance shouldn’t be seen as a negative unless it is willful. There is just so many things that not everyone experiences or has received conflicting information about to say being unaware is a negative until the person refuses to learn.

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    [Personal view] A stupid question is typically one that has a built-in assumption or fallacy. For example, your question in the title isn’t stupid, until we include the body of the post; the body of the post contains an assumption (that this comm is against stupid questions, when the name of the comm instead conveys “no questions are stupid”), so it makes the question stupid.

    So, oddly enough, the part of the question that might make it stupid is not the question itself.

    Side note every bloody body does some damn stupid questions once in a while. So don’t take this “you’re question is of stupid!” as personal criticism. i.e. I could be the one asking the stupid question instead and I’m aware of this.