• Zetta@mander.xyz
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      6 months ago

      My co worker has straight gum rot, like a few millimeter layer where the gums meet their teeth that’s all whiteish green and they have horrendous breath I can smell 15 feet down wind of the AC system. This is due to their horrible personal hygiene, he has a wife with good teeth, I don’t know how she kisses him, I would vomit.

      He’s only in his early 30’s and also just had to get one of his K9 teeth pulled out.

      • CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org
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        6 months ago

        It seems like sometimes women (in specific) start with these crazy high expectations, but then start lowering them during the relationship, and never stop lowering them.

        There absolutely is such a thing as too accepting of bad behavior from a partner. That’s just healthy boundaries. Letting your gums rot probably should be outside that scope, if they can help it at all.

  • OurToothbrush@lemmy.ml
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    6 months ago

    People who this is targeted at and don’t get it when you explain it.

    Unless you have investigated a problem, you will be deprived of the right to speak on it. Isn’t that too harsh? Not in the least. When you have not probed into a problem, into the present facts and its past history, and know nothing of its essentials, whatever you say about it will undoubtedly be nonsense. Talking nonsense solves no problems, as everyone knows, so why is it unjust to deprive you of the right to speak? Quite a few comrades always keep their eyes shut and talk nonsense, and for a Communist that is disgraceful. How can a Communist keep his eyes shut and talk nonsense?

    It won’t do!

    It won’t do!

    You must investigate!

    You must not talk nonsense!

  • n0x0n@feddit.orgDeutsch
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    6 months ago

    Certain accents. She can be gorgeous and all, but some accents are an immediate turnoff for me…

  • Extras@lemmy.today
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    6 months ago

    Might be picky but if they don’t return their shopping carts or just leaves it in a parking spot

  • HipsterTenZero@dormi.zone
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    6 months ago

    being mean to animals, not washing hands habitually, littering, leaving the shopping cart out, buzz cut / crew cut and variations thereof (for dudes, some chicks can rock it), having no weird behaviors at all, refusal to be vulnerable (oh no its me)

    • toomanypancakes@lemmy.worldEnglish
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      6 months ago

      I’m glad you think so, honestly, but most people don’t give a shit about being mean to animals. That’s a hard one to find a like-minded person on.

    • CALIGVLA@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
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      6 months ago

      Buzz cut for me screams “I’m an NPC and I have no personality.” At least that’s the first impression it passes to me.

      • intensely_human@lemm.ee
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        6 months ago

        Buzz cut to me screams “I have so much social anxiety, have been bullied so badly, that I don’t trust a barber to give me a good haircut”

      • HipsterTenZero@dormi.zone
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        6 months ago

        To me, it looks more like social camoflauge. “I’m just a normal guy, i have normal opinions, trust me bro” is the vibe I get. I get putting it on for things like work, but if you decide to blend in as your preferred look, ehh, i dunno, maybe I’d rather hang out with the bear, you know?

        • Moonguide@lemmy.ml
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          6 months ago

          i’m probably in the minority w this, but blending in is comfortable as hell, as someone who doesn’t really enjoy being social.

          Long after the pandemic was under control I was still using a mask, partly due to health concerns back home, but mostly because with a mask, cap, and glasses, I could walk by people I know but would rather not strike up conversation.

            • Zahille7@lemmy.world
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              6 months ago

              I’m gonna find out soon enough, and I’m worried. I already know I have a couple small bumps on my head (they feel like pimples/ingrown hairs, but I’ve tried squeezing them to no avail), and I’m almost positive my head is shaped differently than normal.

  • Surp@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    Far right or far left. Both obnoxious. How hard is it to do what’s right for people and not have to be on either end of a fucking seesaw?

    • TheFriar@lemm.ee
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      6 months ago

      Some of us have held our political opinions since before 2016. We’re much more bearable, even those of us on the far left. I firmly believe people need to go through an obnoxious political phase. It’s just way more normal to go through it in high school/college. But will it be just a phase when people are going through it in their adulthood? I dunno. But I guess we’ll have to find out the hard way.

      • warbond@lemmy.world
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        6 months ago

        I was so apathetic in my early voting years, so I guess I’m doing my weird political thing in mid-life.

        • TheFriar@lemm.ee
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          6 months ago

          I mean, it’s great that people are getting more involved and aware. But I think the combination of the explosion of political awareness with the current state of discourse thanks to social media/the devolution of the right into petty, bald-faced, reactionary rage (some of you may not have been around for this, but the right used to have a mask over their petty reactionary rage) has made for a noxious cocktail of nothing of value ever being discussed.

          Now, was it more frustrating when they were less open about their intentions? Sure. Because it felt like shouting at a wall. And it was more “boring” to be politically aware. But under those wraps we had the patriot act, PNAC, intelligent neocons playing politics way more competently, and a serious problem with somehow even less conscientious democrats.

          But now we have companies operating blanket eavesdropping via apps/home aid/LLMs (and the patriot act is still hanging around), project REDMAP/Project 2025, less than intelligent far right lunatics not understanding how to play politics, and democrats playing conscientious for appearances while still being, at best, useless neoliberals and at worst, reactionaries themselves.

          Things have changed, and not for the better. Add on top of that discourse deteriorating into nonsense while everyone throws their hat in the mix with their uninformed opinions…it’s a depressing landscape. So, I don’t know if people can grow out of that obnoxious, I’ll-informed political stage because that’s just politics now.

    • Azzu@lemm.ee
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      6 months ago

      What if an opinion held on the far end of the spectrum is what is actually right for people? Do you dismiss it because of being on the end of the fucking seesaw?

  • Scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.techEnglish
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    6 months ago

    Being rude to service staff. Immediate indicator on who they are as a person. There is zero reason to ever be mad at someone making near minimum wage whose job it is to grab you a drink or check you out or something. It also shows that they’ve themselves never worked service, which is a rite of passage

    • tenchiken@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      6 months ago

      “Why should I tip?! I’m already paying for the service!”

      Immediately leave without even telling them to take a cab.

      • EvilCartyen@feddit.dk
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        6 months ago

        Happens to be true in all modern western countries though, only the US seems unable to force companies to pay a livable minimum wage.

        • Moonguide@lemmy.ml
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          6 months ago

          Not necessarily. I’m not in the US, but we’ve imported a lot of their less savoury customs, and tipping culture is one of them. It is costumary to tip 18% where I’m from.

      • AZERTY@feddit.nl
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        6 months ago

        If I am ordering and picking up at a counter fuck tipping. If I’m actually being waited on then I’ll always tip if the service wasn’t dogshit.

        • jjjalljs@ttrpg.network
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          6 months ago

          I tip in those situations because the $5 won’t make a difference to me, but might to them.

          Like, if you’re broke, whatever. But some people are pulling in seven figures annually and still whine about a $5 tip.

    • John_McMurray@lemmy.world
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      6 months ago

      It depends. I run a bar and also frequent bars. I see a lot of behavior from wait staff I’d fire them for. Wait staff endlessly bitch about customers but its a two way street, staff develops a blind spot to their own behavior due to spending so much time in a bar.

      • Randomgal@lemmy.ca
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        6 months ago

        Bro they are working in a high intensity environment. You are there to have fun. They are talking behind your back. (So how does that affect you?) Versus actively being a jerk to someone just doing their job (which is, unfortunately, to engage with you). It’s not the same.

        • John_McMurray@lemmy.world
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          6 months ago

          Are you really trying to explain running a bar to me? Anyways your answer is horseshit. I work in that high intensity environment and see the blinders go on. Innocuous requests by customers turn into staff acting like it’s a massive imposition. They openly talk to me because they’ve been at my bar, served by me, and I know who’s I’d hire and I wouldn’t from the free talk.

  • UnfortunateDoorHinge@aussie.zone
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    6 months ago

    I’ve ended a relationship because the girl drove like an impatient bafoon. If you have a superiority complex about a speed limit in residential areas, I’ll sit in the passenger seat railing about how you’re such a shit driver. Just drive the speed limit and gently.

  • j4k3@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    6 months ago

    Someone that takes abstract statements personally and responds in anger. It shows a lack of self awareness and depth. It also implies that they have a limited binary view of the world around them; a bipolar me versus others perspective outlook.