Basically the sister question of that other post here…
I tried to add my frustration there, but i think it’s suited here more. Never in a relationship, I’m a terrible candidate with no money, properties and almost zero social skills and that will never change, I’m basically an alien. Even my own family thinks I don’t act like a human being and don’t like me.
They pursue other things because they know they are not capable to charm the other sex. That’s it, I’ve seen men in Japan being completely sociable inept. And a small minority basically isolated themselves from everything.