The whole thing: The girls doing it NSFW content and selling it, the dudes buying into it mostly because they won’t have any of it in real life, the way society sees it… Thoughts?

Personally I think every adult woman can do whatever the fuck she wants with her body and sexuality, even sell it. But obviously there will be consequences later in life if she wants to became a mother… And it shouldn’t be like that anymore.

The dudes buying “their girlfriend” there is complicated. At first I made fun of them but now I realised for many men, myself included, is that fake sexual relationship (or even fake sentimental relationships) or NOTHING. I won’t buy any of that for myself, since the fake part kills any allure for me, plus preferring to keep that little money I got left in my wallet but I understand more why more men do it. Is their only shot to a reality close to a relationship, is that or AI girlfriends.

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    OnlyFans is just one step below prostitution. They will vanish overnight when sex work is legal.

    If anything, get an actual sex worker in person. Settling for OnlyFans is ridiculous when there are literal TBs of porn out there. In person may be therapeutic for you as well. At the same time, invest in yourself. Workout, go to school and read actual books. Be someone worth being with.

    Or…… still be on OnlyFans in 5 years sending some stranger your money while they love and fuck someone else. Up to you. I really don’t care.

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      OnlyFans is just one step below prostitution. They will vanish overnight when sex work is legal.

      This is absolutely not true, and is absolutely dripping with sexism.

      Settling for OnlyFans is ridiculous when there are literal TBs of porn out there.

      People aren’t paying for porn. They’re paying for parasocial relationships.

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        17 days ago

        I never mentioned sex or gender in anyway but you perceive whatever you like.

        Yes I know they’re paying for parasocial sexual relationships and when real life encounters are possible this online bs will disappear. But great job trying to undermine my comment and advice. This was a ask lemmy post seeking opinions, not your opinion of my opinion

        According to you, if they weren’t getting naked and performing in a sexual manner, people would pay for that parasocial relationship. Lol ok